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Always be a Gentleman and a Scholar. Be Polite but not overly so, and raise your voice only for recreation. Make sure to keep calm and collected unless the situation calls calls for otherwise, which should be rarely. If you have the upper hand, never let it be known. If there is a conflict, you've failed your duty of maintaining happiness. Fail rarely.

TLDR: Ladies can be Gentlemen too, stand tall happy people.